Swinging…not the one at the playground.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever been approached to have a menage a trois? In English, that means a threesome.
In my experience, more than I would like to be honest about it.
The situation always goes like this…the guy likes me, the guy wants to get to know me better, the guy is cool…except there’s one thing…he has a girlfriend who would also like to play with me, too.
Swinging? That’s the topic of the day.
I don’t judge. If people want to have open-minded sexual encounters then by all means, knock yourselves out. But, what always fascinates me is…what about me suggests that not only would I be the “plus one for the evening,” but that I would like to engage with women? Don’t get me wrong, I think a lot of women are beautiful, simply aesthetically, but I’m not attracted to them, and I’m certainly not interested in engaging in “acts” with them.
Not to mention that you want me to engage with your man in front of you? Maybe, I’m a little territorial, but I don’t like sharing. And I don’t want someone else in my business, engaging with someone I’m involved with.
But, different strokes for different folks.
Call me old-fashion, but I prefer monogamy over a polyamorous relationship. How do you get to a place where you’re like, “yeah, let’s swap, or that’s fine, do what you got to do?”
I think there’s other recreational things out there to keep one occupied.
And whenever I decline, I’m polite about it but I’m also interested in why they ask me. The answer: because we think you’re hot. And you would be a lot of fun to play with.
Yes, I’m a fun gal, but I’m not that fun.
And the thing is, I’ve never been interested in doing that. I know for some, they would kill to have that opportunity, well mostly guys, I think it’s all guys’ fantasy to be with two women, but for me, does absolutely nothing for me.
The longer I live in NYC…the more nothing surprises me.